As teachers, we often seek stories to help us explain or show concepts (i.e. compassion, kindness, patience) that are hard to define without concrete examples. As readers, we sometimes reach for stories to help us understand or explore our spiritual side. As mothers, we might search for stories to help us explain to our children what is meant by God’s unconditional love. Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion is an astounding collection of stories that can accomplish all of these tasks.
Tattoos on the Heart demonstrates the power and possibilities of boundless compassion and kindness through the sometimes startling and always unique stories of the former gang members (a.k.a. “Homies”) Fr. Boyle (a.k.a. “G-Dog”) has worked with at Homeboy Industries in the Boyle Heights neighborhood of Los Angeles for the past 24 years.
I love the title of this book. But after reading it, I was compelled to write on its cover (my husband hates when I do that, but I am saying I was compelled) an additional phrase: “Kindness is the only strength there is.” Fr. Boyle’s own story illustrates the fundamental kindness that transforms not just those who receive it, but those who give it.
G-Dog knows how to tell a story with grace and humor (I would love to go to a mass where he gives the homily). His detailed and riveting accounts are tales of deep suffering, hope, grace and redemption. So many of the stories show the intense power of unconditional love and acceptance as well as the importance of fighting despair.
Through these stories and Fr. Boyle’s thoughtful reflections, we learn about compassion, mercy, baptism, gladness, kinship and God’s presence in our lives. We discover more about meaningful success: standing in solidarity with those in need and persisting faithfully, despite numerous failures, and not abandoning our post, despite the lack of “evidence-based outcomes” (ring a bell, my teaching colleagues?).
I loved this book. Many of these stories are now “tattooed” on my heart and remind me, as did so many of my former students, that every life matters. Meeting the world with a loving heart will truly determine what we find there ( not my words but Fr. Boyle’s). G-Dog has a way with words and an ability to articulate deep truths, such as the concept that true compassion for the poor: “stands in awe at what the poor have to carry, rather than in judgment of how they carry it.”
Whole chapters or even just a few of the stories in Tattoos on the Heart could be used in a late middle school (8th grade) or high school classroom as authentic, mentor text for writing narratives. Or to explore the meaning and power of empathy and compassion (focus of chapter 3 of the book) with visual arts activities (yes, we all have tattoos on the heart and so many students pre-write more effectively if they’ve created a visual representation first).
(Intended audience: Ages 14 & up)